One month ago last night, my heart disintegrated. It shattered into the ether, and the fragments fell and settled into an urn, the dust of my heart together with Ronnie James’ ashes. Well, Ronnie James is my heart. They are the same, and they are in a little box, and I still haven’t figured out how to navigate myself from here.
Our three hearts are broken… mine, Callaghan’s, Nounours’. I took a picture of Nounours last night at exactly the time of his brother’s death:
Nounours with Ronnie James, one month later.
It’s like that urn is alive with Ronnie James’ pulse. We all feel him; his spirit and love are so strong.
Meanwhile, my tattoo of Ronnie James’ paw print has healed. I thought it was beautiful before, but now I can see that it’s an exquisite work of art. It’s smudgy and unevenly pigmented, looking, in other words, perfectly real – like Ronnie James left it there, himself. I’ll always be able to see the paw print of my (precious-angel-baby-bunny-dragon) Ronnie James, my petit Wrah-Wrah, my son who could never get enough cuddles or kisses.
My new tattoo has healed and transformed into an incredibly realistic imprint of Ronnie James’ paw.
I’ve never loved a tattoo more, and that’s saying a lot, because I have a lot of tattoos that I love. My collection of tattoos spans three decades; I had my first one done on my 18th birthday in 1987 (it was before tattoos went mainstream, a “bad girl” thing to do at the time, but I didn’t care what anyone thought), and this last one was done three weeks ago. 90% of my ink is on my back, though, where my eyes can’t reach. Every once in a while, I stand at an angle in the bathroom and admire what I can see in the mirrors.
I’ll show them to you, while I’m on the subject. I took the ones of my arm – may I just remark how awkward it is to take a selfie of one’s arm? – and Callaghan took the pics of my back. All of the pictures were taken yesterday, and they’re just of my arm and back. (Not pictured: pelvis tattoo, anklet tattoo.)
While the wind blew! Here’s a string of outlined hearts spiraling up my left upper arm. Callaghan drew them, and then I had them inked over by the tattooist.
The inside of my lower left arm… and now you know one of my favorite numbers.
I took those at lunch. We did the rest when I got home from work. This selfie was the last picture I took as the sun was setting (the window is behind me):
I took this by fading daylight in my home office. As usual, I did nothing to the picture… the alignment of the string of lights on my hair was a total fluke that I discovered after the fact.
And here are the back tattoo pics Callaghan took before that (I put on my very lowest-rise jeans for this, since the tiger at the bottom goes quite low):
It looks like a single piece, but I added to the work over time, starting in 1988 and ending in 2010.
My poor mother strongly disapproves of all of this ink. Close your eyes, Mom!
Here’s a clearer view. The Sanskrit script at the base of my neck reads, “om mani padme hum,” my favorite Buddhist mantra.
The dragon was my second tattoo (1988), and the first one to be done on my back. It was touched up by a different tattooist in 2010.
A talented friend designed my horse, which represents freedom and fortitude to me. I wanted the horse to be facing forward while looking back.
I’m kind of fascinated by how my phone’s camera managed to pick up little beads of sweat on my spine!
Happy Friday, All.
Your back of tattoos is gorgeous! Looking forward to getting my first one within the next couple months 🙂
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Thank you, Renee! =) I’m excited for you as you get your first tattoo!
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